Self-proclaimed president of Single Mothers, Akothee, has weighed in on matters concerning marriage and breakups.
In her view, she believes that divorce doesn’t have to be messy following a case that is ongoing between Sarah and her husband Simon after the former claimed she was undergoing physical and emotional abuse in her marriage.
Their marital issues played out in the media a few days ago, when a leaked CCTV footage of a woman alleged to be Sarah, was seen supposedly shoving another female.
The Bonfire Adventures boss alleged her husband had intentionally leaked it to taint her reputation. This led to Simon also appearing in an interview defending himself from such claims, where he alleged the woman in the video was his professional nanny, and Sarah was indeed the other woman in the video.
Sarah had challenged him to tell Kenyans who the women were.
Akothee who has been married twice took to her socials, weighing in on the matter.
‘ The problem here is the relationship between a husband and a wife where emotions, children, and property are involved. It’s not employee/employer issues. Don’t mix the two. Someone is emotionally damaged be mindful.” she started.
Akothee who has for years described herself as the Self Proclaimed President of Single Mothers added.
“I would like to take this opportunity to urge both couples to step away from social media and try to appear as the innocent ones. While we may seem like we care and push you to provide evidence of who did what, and where with who, remember this: people don’t want evidence to set you free. Instead, all the evidence you share with us “online in-laws” will be used to bring you down. If that’s not enough, we will burn you, and if even burning you isn’t enough, we will drag your children into it and take sides in your business.”
Akothee further advised
“Whatever is happening now is not good for either of you, your family members, or especially your children. The people you are explaining yourselves to include some who have barely escaped the “bed of death” called marriage. Don’t scrutinize or try to damage each other’s reputation. All the evidence you are sharing now will one day come back to bite you. I insist: KABU, shut up. You are a man, a father, and an entrepreneur. Toka kwa kamera kwanza. This matter is too sensitive to be public right now. I have been in These shoes before, where my ex who broke our union convinced everyone I was the problem deep down he knew the truth.”
“I am not saying you are wrong, but wait, just wait Bro, I have been in those shoes, both of you. A woman replaced me in my marital home. I was left husbandless with children, and yet, even she didn’t keep my man. She eventually dumped him. Whatever is in court, keep it there. Hawa watu wa social media sio watu good. Remember, you will still need to share the kids, the family, and the business.”
In her opinion, Akothee felt the matter being played out in public doesn’t help
“Divorce doesn’t have to be ugly. Kama Big G imeisha utamu, TEMAAA KWA HESHIMAA.” Akothee advised
She concluded that she stands with Sarah Kabu despite the CCTV doing rounds on social media.
